Dear Sarah,
I am engaged to the most wonderful man on the planet. He is handsome, thoughtful, considerate, and successful. Literally my only concern about him or the relationship is that he has the smallest penis of any man I’ve ever been with. At first I blew this off as unimportant, but the longer we’re together the more I feel like I’m missing something. I can’t have an orgasm during intercourse because I just can’t feel him inside me. I have seen some ads on the internet for penis enlargement pills, and am wondering if there’s anything to this. Also, if they do work, how can I bring this up without hurting his feelings?
In Love With Microscopic Man
Dear Scientist,
This is a complex issue. The simple answer to your question is don’t waste your money on penis enlargement pills; they don’t work. Maintaining a relationship with the most wonderful man on the planet seems worth the effort, so it’s important to find other ways you can feel sexually satisfied. I might suggest using an insertive sex toy such as a dildo, as well as manual stimulation of your clitoris (by you or your fiancé) during intercourse. Try to focus on the options available to you in the relationship rather than on what you don’t or cannot have with this particular partner. Men tend to derive large parts of their self esteem from their income and sexual performance. Keep this in mind when communicating with him about this issue, and handle it gently!
Take care,
SK
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