Dear Sarah,
I am a 48 year old woman in a new dating relationship. The attraction is strong and the sex is good. I'm noticing, though, that even when I'm really turned on there are times I don't get very wet. I feel embarrassed about it, and I feel the need to apologize or explain myself. This has never happened to me in past relationships, and I don't want to send the message I'm not interested. How should I handle this?
Desert Down There
Dear Gobi,
Ah, the wonders of aging... It seems likely you are perimenopausal, which is often accompanied by vaginal dryness. See your gynecologist to have your hormone levels checked. You may benefit from natural supplements (or HRT if you're so inclined). Meanwhile, talk to your sex partner and invest in a good bottle of lube. (I recommend ID Lube.) This can be a fun addition to your sexual escapades even if you're not concerned about dryness!
Take care,
SK
If you have a question for the sex therapist, email sarah@sarahkyle.com
I am a 48 year old woman in a new dating relationship. The attraction is strong and the sex is good. I'm noticing, though, that even when I'm really turned on there are times I don't get very wet. I feel embarrassed about it, and I feel the need to apologize or explain myself. This has never happened to me in past relationships, and I don't want to send the message I'm not interested. How should I handle this?
Desert Down There
Dear Gobi,
Ah, the wonders of aging... It seems likely you are perimenopausal, which is often accompanied by vaginal dryness. See your gynecologist to have your hormone levels checked. You may benefit from natural supplements (or HRT if you're so inclined). Meanwhile, talk to your sex partner and invest in a good bottle of lube. (I recommend ID Lube.) This can be a fun addition to your sexual escapades even if you're not concerned about dryness!
Take care,
SK
If you have a question for the sex therapist, email sarah@sarahkyle.com
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